Let me ask you…
Are you STRUGGLING at meeting women online?
You are? Well, guess what? You aren’t alone. The fact is, MOST men fail at online dating and quit within WEEKS after posting their first online dating profile. Well, why is that? Are all women on Internet dating sites that mean? Do they just NOT like men at all?
No, obviously that isn’t the case! After all, we all know some guys that are having a LOT of success with online dating. You’ve heard about them… right?
“Dude!!! I’m getting laid left and right from women I met on Match.com. What’s your problem??? It’s so easy!”
Well, one of two things is going on there. Either these guys are lying, or they know something the rest don’t. Maybe they searched the net for dating profile examples for men, and found the “perfect dating ad.” Maybe they all look like Brad Pitt.
Well, I’m here to tell you that when it comes to having success with meeting women online, you HAVE to have TWO things right. Screw up either one of them, and you will NOT be meeting ANY women!
The first is your dating profile. This needs to be solid. It needs to really show your personality! The days of laundry lists and facts are LONG GONE! (In fact, I’m not sure these kinds of dating profiles were ever successful.) Women are drawn to EMOTIONS, and in particular mystery and intrigue.
Why do you think romance novels are so popular? Women can’t buy them up fast enough because they CAN’T resist them!
So, making your profile convey a sense of mystery is paramount and you MUST learn how to do it right. No…copying dating profile examples for men off the internet is NOT going to cut it. Women want to meet YOU, not some guy you are pretending to be.
The next thing you want to do is convey a sense of confidence. Use assertive, commanding language in your profile, BUT don’t overdo it. Confidence is sexy, cockiness is a turn off!
Finally, show some humor! Online dating should NOT be serious. Show her you have a clever sense of humor. It’s always great to end your profile by poking fun at other guys on internet dating sites.
So, now you know how to write an eye-catching, compelling online dating profile. That’s the all important FIRST step to online dating success.